We've all experienced times of conflict and personal struggle. Times when the assistance and advice of a friend always seemed to lend comfort and ease the burden. Have you ever wondered what it would be like if that friend was one of the world's most revered astrologers, with over 25 years of experience?
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The following are our 'Dear Eugenia' letters archive:
Dear Eugenia?
First I would like to tell you how much I enjoy the daily horoscopes. I go to your website every day to read them. I also enjoy the other sites that you have.
I have several concerns. One is I quit my job the day before Valentine's Day. I just had enough of my boss; nothing I did for her was ever good enough. I was wondering if I will be getting another job soon in the profession that I love or will I be opening up my own business with a friend of mine??
Two I'm worried about my marriage (12/07/67). My husband left me three years ago because of the problems we were having. It seems like history is repeating itself except for my husband leaving. I'm just waiting for him to pick up and leave again. Will he?? Three, my son (15/06/87). What is up with that child of mine? Why is he being so stubborn? Will he be coming back home again? Will he go back to school and get the education he so desperately needs? Will he be going back to jail? Thank you so much for taking the time to read my letter. God Bless you and I hope to hear from you soon.
Sincerely,
Rose
Dear Rose
The area of your chart that deals with work and money will be better towards the last quarter of this year however the reason it takes from now until that time could be due to the fact that you do open your own business. You may want to take whatever job comes along to subsidize you while you are trying to get your own business off the ground. Your chart indicates that you should be working for yourself or if you are working for a company you should be in a position that gives you the freedom to do your job the way you see fit, not under someone else?s regime. If you are to start your own business in conjunction with a friend you are probably best to have an astrological comparison done between you and that person before you move forward.
You match up well to your husband in many ways but there are problems as well. You are still going through a period that can cause uncertainty in your marriage and that will continue to move through your chart until the middle of next year. Between now and that time you may have to walk on eggshells. Without your husbands time of birth I can?t be sure what he will do but he is overreacting, going through depression and feeling an awful lot of anxiety.
You didn?t mention your son?s time of birth either and that limits what I can tell you about him as well. With regard to ending up back in detention - the possibilities are certainly evident. Your son is frustrated and angry and this will probably lead to him getting into trouble, facing danger or even problems with medications, drugs or other stimulants. Counseling may help.
Eugenia
Dear Eugenia,
I (6 July 69, 2.40am) am the last of many siblings to leave home. I was 28 years old and realized I had to create some kind of independent life for myself. Though I love my mother (19 Dec 25) very much, we do not get along well for long periods, I've endured a lot of very hurtful criticism from her, but never retaliating out of respect. I left partly because I just couldn't take it anymore. I feel a lot of guilt and shame in even admitting this because your mother should be on a pedestal. I have a lot of problems trusting because I feel that if the closest person to me can wound me so much, then strangers may be even worse! Though I have stable platonic relationships, my romantic ones have been very sporadic and short lived (9 months is the longest). My past boyfriends either tried to treat me like their mother (23 Oct 66) or like a child (12 Dec 59). I got out cause I felt the walls were closing in and I couldn't be myself. My one true love (6 May 61) is now married to someone else. Is there any luck for me in the next few years and what signs should I look out for?
lover in a rut
Dear lover in a rut
It's a good thing that you are finally moving on and out of your parental home. Once you are away from the negativity you will begin to have more confidence in yourself and in others. You were born with Venus opposite Neptune in your natal chart and this can cause some sorrow or difficulties for you where relationships are concerned. You should be checking out the compatibility astrologically between yourself and whomever you fancy before you become too intimate. You match up well to those born under the signs Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces. Your chart indicates that you do not have a hard time meeting potential partners but you do make it difficult for the people you meet to get too close to you. Once you learn to open up a little you will find yourself enjoying the company of others. If you don't allow your partner to treat you like a child or a mother it will be hard for him to do so. Be strong, take control and most of all check every potential lover out through my compatibility feature.
Eugenia
Dear Eugenia,
A few months ago, I could not get an ex-boy fiend out of my mind. It was his 30th Birthday coming up and I just could not stop thinking about him! I took it upon myself to write a letter to him just to say hello, as we had not spoken in over 5 years since I moved back home to Australia. I didn't know where he was (he lives in the US) so I sent the letter to his parent's address, which they forwarded to him. In the letter I said not to feel obligated to write back if he didn't want to etc. I knew he was married and wanted to respect that. He was the love of my life, the one that I still compare everyone else to. He was such an important influence on who I am.Two days ago, I received an email back from him. He was amazed and very happy to hear from me. He is divorced now, living with a new girlfriend in another state. We have sent a few e-mails back and forth over the past few days and I am stunned that we still know exactly what to say to make the other laugh and connect! We were the best of friends and I was equally as devastated when we split up for losing a lover and best friend.
My point is, have we come back into communication with each other for a reason? I always thought of him as my soul mate and have often said that if we had met in our late 20's, we would have been together for life. I am now 29. I am sure I am reading too much into it. Or am I? If not, it is really nice to be in touch again. What's happening here???
Kindest Regards
Kate
Dear Kate
It is too bad that you didn't include his date of birth. Without it I can't run a comparison in order to determine if you do belong together or not. I can tell you however that you are going through your Saturn return right now and this always makes you reevaluate your past. It can bring past partner back into your life especially if you didn't have proper closure the first time around. I suggest that you tread carefully because you also have transiting Saturn opposite your natal Neptune and this can mean that you or he are not being completely honest about your intentions, situation or feelings. Check out your compatibility with this man on the site before you proceed and if you do match up well I suggest that you move forward with caution. Ask questions and dig deep to find out where he has been and whom he is with. Truth will be the most important issue regarding your romantic future this year. You match up well to those born under the signs Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra and Sagittarius.
Eugenia
