Saturday, 12th September, 2026

We've all experienced times of conflict and personal struggle.  Times when the assistance and advice of a friend always seemed to lend comfort and ease the burden. Have you ever wondered what it would be like if that friend was one of the world's most revered astrologers, with over 25 years of experience?

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I have decided to put more time and energy into my research. It’s been a pleasure to answer your emails and to help you through some of life’s tough journeys. Everyone who has participated in my Dear Eugenia column has enriched my life and I hope I have improved yours as well.

For those of you who wish to contribute birth data to my research, please enter your information to my medical astrology research listed on my home page. This research is explicitly dealing with cancer and mental health – addiction illness. The focus is on early diagnosis and preventative medicine.

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The following are our 'Dear Eugenia' letters archive:

Article: Wasting Time

Dear Eugenia:

This is the third time that I write you. I was born October 10, 1965 at 12:40 am. I am finally working in my chosen career and life it great except for one thing. When will I meet my soul mate? I met someone, his birthday is February 8, 1959 and we have a lot in common. The problem is that there is a woman in his life, November 3, 1960. I was told by a Psychic that she would be leaving. Am I wasting time waiting?

When will I meet someone?

Lonely Libra


Dear Lonely Libra

Forget the Aquarius man juggling two women. Neither one of you matches up well to him. In both cases deception is present in your comparisons. As for you this is a period that you should be out socializing and having some fun. The most important thing to remember is that you must avoid men who are still attached to someone else. If you get out and do things you enjoy in an entertaining way you will meet someone you can form a relationship with. You match up well to those born under the signs Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and yes Aquarius. Although you can match up well to any of these signs you must remember that every chart is unique and you should still have an astrological comparison done before you give your heart to someone.


Article: From Lost and Confused

Hi Eugenia

I was in a 10 year long relationship with a man that I believe is the love of my life. Things were so easy for about the first year, after that they seemed to just be on a steady course of difficulty. I've never strayed from my dream of marriage and a family. He said he wanted all the same things and recently has changed his mind. He has done a 180 on me and we are now separated. We went through a similar thing a few years ago, but got back together after about four months apart. He was born on January 12, 1972 and I was born on June 23, 1969 at 11:00 pm. As far as signs go, I know that we are perfectly compatible. Can you tell me if I'm crazy for loving this man? Is this a temporary split while he works out whatever has him scared or is this permanent? I've been lost and confused trying to make sense of all of this... any help you can offer would be a great help in putting my mind and heart at ease.

Thank you,
Lost and Confused


Dear Lost and Confused

The comparison was okay but not without some problems. Although your boyfriend was born under the sign Capricorn he does have three planets in the sign Sagittarius and this is usually an indication that even if he does decide to get married he will always be a bachelor at heart. He has his natal Venus in the sign Aquarius and this planet is going through a change of heart, confusion and as a result causing his 180-degree turn. His natal Venus is also at an adverse position to your natal Neptune and this usually causes sorrow within the relationship. In your case it shows up when it comes to changing your status in life that meaning marriage. I also believe that there could be some problems where friends and family are concerned that you may not even know about. Your chart indicates that you will be in a much better position regarding love, marriage and so forth towards the end of this year and through most of next. I wouldn't give him much more time to do a reversal. If he can't make up his mind by the fall let it go. As for you I believe that you should be focusing on career, getting out and meeting and making some new friends and moving on with your life. You actually match up well to those born under the signs Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces. If he doesn't turn around don't rule out people born under his sign just run an astrological comparison on my site to make sure that he is truly a strong Goat and not someone with a build up of natal planets in Sagittarius.

Eugenia


Article: From Desperate Taurus

Dear Eugenia,

This is my third writing to you with no response. I was born on May 2, 1964, at 11:45AM. I would like to know why everyone in my company got the promotion but me.I got a new terrible boss. He makes me doing his work without proper compensation. I've been with the company for three and half years. I have put in a request for a promotion. Do you see any luck in my chart? Please help!As for my personal life, I am searching for Mr. Right. I am a typical old-fashioned lady, 39 years old and still a virgin. I have tried everything and am tired of searching the right person. Do you see any potential for me? I would very much appreciate your response. Thank you very very much.

Desperate Taurus.


Dear Desperate Taurus

It may be time to change companies altogether. You didn't give me your boss's birth data so I can't tell you what his problem is but I can tell by your chart that it isn't your fault. The only thing that might be resting on your shoulders is that you may be overreacting and perhaps a talk with your boss or another superior in the company would help. Your chart indicates that you will be in a much better position where professional gains are concerned beginning this time next year so don't dismay things will get better. Regarding love you should be able to meet someone next year especially if you decide to get involved in a church group or another organization that you feel does important work. The more you get out the better your chances are of meeting Mr. Right.

Eugenia


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