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The following are our 'Dear Eugenia' letters archive:
Dear Eugenia:
I love your site; I like the astroguidance and tarotguidance. But I am confused about the chart about my love life. I am sure that will get your interest. Please help.
For over two years, the personalized horoscope, in love life department, it keeps saying: "you must give your partner a chance, this is a period that can make or break your relationship. Learn to compromise will be okay, but push your opinions to your partner and you will be expect to stand alone. You will attract to individuals that are older or younger than you". from that chart, my love life is TERRIBLE since then, I have been chasing the wrong girls and I ended up with my heart shattered. Now recently, I looked up the Astroguidance, by June 7th, it says: "Use flexibility to make things harmonious. Be charming and you will attract people similar to you". So what will the change in my love life? Please help. I was born in 7/19/1982, 1.17 pm.
Astrological Enigma
Dear Astrological Enigma
The reason your chart changed in June was due to a Jupiter transit that creates a high cycle regarding romantic opportunities. This transit is with you until the end of July and you must get out and take advantage of it. Meet, greet and have fun. The reason you have been going through a make it or break it time for so long was due to transiting Saturn moving through your seventh house of relationships. This is usually a difficult time to meet people or if you are with someone it can cause you to face frustration, obstacles or in some cases marriage or marriage breakups etc. Although the Saturn is still gliding through the tail end of your seventh house the worst is over and with the benefit of transiting Jupiter sitting on your natal Venus things should be looking up in the romance department.
Eugenia
Dear Eugenia,
I've just started on my first ever relationship. My past failures to court a girl were mainly due to the fact that I think too much. So, when I met this girl, I plunged straight in without giving second thoughts. But now, I found that we are not that compatible. Could you give me some advice on this relationship, if it's going to be a good lasting one for both of us.
My birth date is 29 Dec 1976, time about 5 past 12 midnight. Her birth date is 18 Apr 1982. I do not know of her time of birth.
Took the Plunge
Dear Took the Plunge
I believe that the comparison is just adequate as there are some signs of sorrow. This particular girl is an Aries and that is the sign that falls in an area of your chart that deals with relationships so I understand why you were attracted to her. However, she isn't that strong of an Aries. I believe that problems will arise when dealing with friends and family and that you will have to be very open and honest with one another if you want this relationship to work. If you are ready to move on by all means do so quickly as you are in a high cycle regarding love and romance and meeting potential partners right now so you should be out having fun and interacting with others.
Eugenia
Hi Eugenia
My husband has a drinking problem. He has been able to control this problem for the past 5-6 years. Recently he has begun drinking again and there is starting to be the same kind of mental abuse as he displayed in the past. I am at the age where I do not feel I can repeat and repeat this sort of abuse and lifestyle. Money is also becoming an issue as he continues to drink. He continues to threaten to leave and I am at the point where if not for my financial position, I would put the entire relationship behind me and move on alone. Is this a good idea?.......Please help, he is born July 10, 1951 at 6:30 a.m. and I April 25, 1944, at 10 a.m.
Stay or Leave
Dear Stay or Leave
I believe that your husband will become worse before he becomes better. The next year and a half will be filled with all sorts of limitations for him regarding health, authority figures, dealing with institutions and so forth. I feel that the past couple of years you have taken the brunt of his obvious lack of control and abuse and now is the time to give him an ultimatum. Should he leave he will go down hill over the course of the next couple of years. Should he seek help it will take him the next couple of years to reform. As for you I feel that the time for change is fast approaching. That you should be seeking help from women's groups and co-dependent organizations in order to get back on your feet and away from him. Your comparison did indicate that there has been love in the past with this man but that was probably a long time ago. There is also sorrow especially where substance abuse is concerned and because of this I feel that even if he does seek help that there will always be the potential for him to slip over and over again. I do not believe that you will ever be able to fully put his abuse behind you and that your reason for staying with this man has more to do with fear of being alone and lack of funds. Your chart indicates that you are youthful and entertaining and that you will be okay if you can only get yourself out of this situation. By all means - if he wants to leave let him go.
Eugenia
